We live in a transient society today. It is not uncommon for family members to move away from one another. Whatever the reason, grandparents find they are separated from their children and grandchildren more and more. This does not mean they are separated in heart! Grandparenting ?over the miles? is affordable, delightful and probably the most satisfying way to continue a relationship with your loved ones! For starters, engaging your children in this process is essential. They can keep you up on the stages your grandchildren are going through, what their interests are, what gifts are appropriate, and what the rules of the house are. When the child is old enough to interact, start engaging the child directly. For example, talk on the telephone, send pictures, cards or letters. This is the foundation for starting a long-term, solid relationship with your grandchild, no matter what their age. It's up to the grandparent to start the ball rolling!
Let?s expand on this long distance communication. Mailing items to your young grandchildren is a learning experience. Before they read, they can recognize their name on the envelope and will love the feeling of importance implied by receiving mail. When mailing letters with pictures, one can tell a story about the picture. (Remember, you are also a family historian and can relay stories that will inform the child of their roots: family ancestry, background, professions, locations, heritage and family tree.) Send a return addressed envelope and encourage them to draw a picture for you and/or write a letter. Send books, explain why you like the book or mention you know why they would like it. Even recording the story in your own voice while they can follow along in the book would be wonderful!
When you are talking to grandchildren on the phone, make notes about what they are saying as they mention their favorites and interests: colors, games, books, TV shows, friends, sports, movies, songs, artists, pet?s names, doll?s name, etc. In your next conversation, you can ask about the specific things they spoke about.
Children respond positively to the special attention and care because this communicates your interest and love. This allows you to know them better and better yet, it deepens your bond with each other. As much as it is healthy and fulfilling for the child, it is equally healthy and fulfilling for the grandparent!
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Source: http://blog.newbyrealty.com/2012/07/long-distance-grand-arenting.html
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